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10 Ways Single Moms can Spend their Time When the Kids are Away

You (Insert your name here) will and must go out no matter how relaxing staying home feels and looks… flip-flops, cozy robes, hot chocolate and 24 hour cable are a no-no…. So come on, get going, be productive and act grown up.Moms must practice self-care.Outside of  a regular school schedule; “Summertime, Christmastime and Holidays” is sometimes all you get to relax without your children around if you are a single mom with sole custody, and with no support system near you.This is because people show up and help out, they give you a break…

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Why We Stay in Bad Relationships

why we stay We believe we truly love our abuser and they love us too and something went wrong to change them. We believe that something or someone is responsible for their current predicament, that it’s a spiritual battle not physical, a type of demonic possession of sorts. You see yourself as the hero that will win, by rescuing this person. We think no one will believe us when we tell them what they’ve done to us. We don’t know what a good relationship looks like. Why don’t we see what everyone else sees, are…

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Did I Give it My best Shot in Light of Eternity

Grace is what makes us smile in spite of life challenges like; job loss, foreclosure, unpaid bills, addictions, unmet desires by a spouse, work, lust, love, separation, divorce, prayerlessness, powerlessness, people disappointing us, us disappointing people, unruly teens, bad parents, bad spouses, bad child to a parent.Sure we want to give up but we mustn’t; our strength, our help, comes from God and from the people we meet who are a help to us.Once every blue-moon someone will ask me how I do it.I’m not sure how I do, did or continuing doing. Can…

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Taking Pride In What You Bring To the Table

Have you ever had days that you just knew what your value was to people, places and causes and other days were you could not figure it out to save your life?Days you’re resisting ownership of what you’re good at and what you’re not.Days of needing opinions, human intervention or permission from others.In my life I have found Galatians 6:3-5 of the bible helpful: Give reading these words a try if a Christian or not; and see how it can help you take pride in your own self worth, work and value…

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Why Proverbs 31 is Relevant To Our Goals and Visions

A goal defined by merriam-webster.com is something that you are trying to do or achieve.A vision defined by dictionary.com is the ability or an instance of great perception, especially of future development.The Proverbs 31 Woman a biblical woman from the book of Proverbs in the Bible, who has been symbolic to the definition of a good woman; married or single as such she is relevant to learning about goals and visions.She purchases wool, considers fields, makes belts and sell to merchants, strategic and purposeful, she had some goal setting going on that’s similar…

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Why having a Job fulfills the most important basic need of Dreaming and having a Vision

Having a job means we don’t have to think of the money we need to pay our bills or what to eat or that our car will get repossessed; it takes away stress and anxiety and helps us afford a lifestyle because we can pay our bills.Ever lost a job, or can you relate as a recent college graduate struggling to find a job, you realize that having a job is what holds dreams and visions together.This inspiration to dream again can be found in our jobs, because it inspires us to look outside our own comfort…

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